I AM A THINKER... AND FOR ME, THINKING IS JUST THE BEGINNING...

FOREWORD:

LIFE TEACHES ALL: AND THE SMART ARE THOSE WHO LEARN NOT FROM THEIR EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES BUT FROM THE EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES OF OTHERS.... BUT THE ONES TRULY BLESSED ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE SOME ONE SPECIAL IN THEIR LIVES, TO BREAK DOWN THE MYSTERY OF LIFE, SOLVE IT FOR THEM AND ENLIGHTEN THEM ON THE TRUTH OF LIFE THUS SAVING THEM THE FRUSTRATION & TRAUMA OF DECIPHERING IT THEMSELVES...

UNFORTUNATELY LIKE ME, NOT EVERY ONE OF US IS LUCKY TO HAVE ONE...

WHAT IS MORE UNFORTUNATE IS THAT, I HAVE LEARNT ALL THAT I AM SHARING WITH YOU, ONLY AFTER INEVITABLY DESTROYING MY LIFE IRREVERSIBLY, AND IN THE PROCESS UNINTENTIONALLY AND HELPLESSLY HURTING MANY DEAR ONES, NOT BECAUSE I WANTED TO, BUT BECAUSE I NEVER UNDERSTOOD MY SELF OR MY WEAKNESS AND THE CONCEPTS/PRINCIPLES OF LIFE WHEN I SHOULD HAVE...

SO IF IT IS RIGHT TO LEARN SKILLS ONLY FROM PEOPLE/GUIDES/TEACHERS WHO REALLY KNOW THOSE SKILLS, THEN IT ONLY MAKES SENSE TO LEARN ALL WHAT ONE SHOULD NEVER DO, FROM THE VERY PEOPLE/SINNERS LIKE ME WHO HAVE DONE WRONG/SINNED IN THEIR LIFE AND ARE REGRETTING TODAY!!!

ABOUT ME:
It is afters years of continuous Observation, Reflection, Self-Study, and Learning from almost any and everything in my life (and the lives of others around me) that form the basis of all my philosophy, principles and concepts, which have successfully molded me into the person I am.

I am an Open Minded person, BUT my open mindedness is controlled by what I call "Protective Thinking" so most people misunderstand me to be Narrow Minded

Just for example:
I don't like Judging people but am forced to do so (using my "Gut Instincts" and mistakes of my past) many times while Interacting with New People as I have to make quick decisions about how to deal with them, when there is no other way of understanding their Intentions (After all we are not in the garden of Eden, are we?).

Even though I Have My Own Beliefs:
I respect all Religions as long as they don't preach anything that destroys the balance of life.

Even though I was Born In a country called XYZ:
I respect all People born in any part of this earth as long as they are Good Human Beings.

I believe every person has the right to do what ever he wants as long as his actions DON'T provoke or hurt others.

Even though I am straight and puke my guts out when Homosexuals Hit on me:
I support Homosexuals and them getting married, as long as they don't start hitting on straight Heterosexuals and start making people feel Homo Phobic.

Even though I don't take the services of Prostitutes:
I support legalization of Prostitution but Not when the woman is tricked/brainwashed/forced into the trade.

Even though I don't like to ever be in a Live-In Relationship:
I support those in Live-In Relationships but only as long as both the Individuals Understand & Respect Each other and their relationship does not affect their present or future in a very disastrous way.

Even though I have been a Soulmate Believer and Monogamous in my beliefs from my Core, I Do Know situations for me being Polygamous, but that is only if I am NOT IN True Soulmate Love with anyone:
I support Polygamy & Polyandry provided It Is Not Based on Lust or other carnal fantasies and is rather based on the Concept of Looking after and Caring for the ones in need of Love(Affection) Protection and Survival and provided each and every one in the relationship is totally happy about being in such a complex marriage. They must love, and respect each other equally, and should be committed towards each other and love to be in that relationship/marriage without selfishness, jealousy or exploitation.

I know like me every one has their share of weakness and short comings... But I hate people who have no principles or morals in their lives (In spite of me having my own weakness and short comings I still do have quite a few principles and morals that I try never to violate) and I hate those people even more when they have no guilt of any kind for all the wrong things they do in their lives, they become even more evil when they make mistakes and don't have the humility to accept it and humbly accept all consequences of their evil actions and evil deeds and worst is when they don't have any desire to be good human beings.

I hate jealous and competitive people who cant see anyone else better than them and who's only goal in life is to prove that they are superior than everyone else. It is because of these kind of people that there is so much unrest and hatred in the world.

I hate people who pretend, fake and try to deceive themselves and others by trying to be something they are not and cannot ever be - basically people who have no self respect and suffer from inferiority complexes -

For Example:
      * Wannabe men and women who fake foreign accents (mostly American/European) when they naturally don't have one.
      * Men & Women who use fairness creams because they are dark skinned.
      * Men & Women who use makeup and other accessories, to hide all the flaws and try to look like something they are not.
      * Men & Women who fake their height by wearing high heels as they feel they are shorter than others.
      * Men who use penile implants and pad their underwear & Women who use breast / butt implants or wear padded bras to fake and hide their real self as they feel ashamed of what they naturally have been blessed with.

I BELIEVE THAT
* PEOPLE SHOULD DRESS TO LOOK LIKE HUMAN BEINGS, WHO UNLIKE ANIMALS ARE MORE THAN JUST A BODY. SO ONE MUST ALWAYS DRESS IN A WAY THAT IS APPROPRIATE, DIGNIFIED, MODEST AND THAT MATCHES WITH THE BEAUTY AND PURITY OF ONE'S SOUL. IN PUBLIC ONE SHOULD NEVER DRESS SEXY OR IN ANYWAY THAT GETS ANY KIND OF ATTENTION TOWARDS THEIR BODY OR BODY PARTS.

I hate people who are attention seekers and who's entire life is spent trying to gain the attention of others in order to feel special/important etc. These people have no self support system and need the constant reassurance of others to realize their worth.
To get attention they - Dress suggestively, Talk Loudly, become Drama Queens, Show off etc.

I don't Like Show Offs and I am sure no sane person would even like one (these people believe that "If you have it Show it" - Instead of being Humble and Respectful)

Nobody likes a Man who tries to run down others by showing of his power or wealth (Displaying his Rolex Watch, Money, Bragging about his Job and Bank Balance) or Strength

Neither do people like a woman showing of her Diamond Ring or Necklace, Bragging about the Expensive Gifts her Boyfriend gives her and this and that...

Well there is one exception when most people(especially men) like Show Offs, and that is in the case of FEMALES(Who are generally Characterless or Just Plain Dumb because their Mama Never taught them how to dress) Who enjoy showing off their sexuality and the sexiness of their bodies(that is abundantly present in the shapes and curves of their body parts). They do this by wearing Skimpy/Cleavage & Butt Crack Displaying/Excessive Skin Showing/Revealing/Transparent/Close Fitting or Figure Hugging clothes etc. They have no concept of Modesty, and will go to any extent to gain attention from people especially the opposite sex. They are similar to Bitches in Heat that deliberately turn their hinds around, pout their butts out and move their tails to the side to show their all, while at the same time look at the Dogs to see if they are giving them any attention and understanding their obvious In-tensions. Interestingly bitches get in heat once or twice in a year while Homo Sapien Females Get into heat every month and end up sending invitations all through out the year. Virgin Bitches have no Idea of the effect of hormones in them why they are doing what they are doing, BUT Homo Sapien Females know everything Yet they choose to behave worse than innocent, helpless Animals.

Showing off is also a Serious Security Risk to the people showing off, imagine a person counting huge dollar bills in public. In fact that is exactly what a Thug would be waiting for, Likewise a woman showing of her body/sexual assets is inviting more than usual Sexual Attention that she may not be able to handle - and may be cheated into getting into bed in the pretext of Love and Marriage or worse she may even get Molested or Raped. (Also Read Women their mindsets and how they get trapped, cheated, hurt because of it...)

Well I am not talking about stray Incidents when even Innocent Humble people fall prey to the Dangerous People (incidents when decently dressed women or when children getting raped.) Its like saying that just because one car jumped over to the Footpath and ran over a Pedestrian that it is totally useless to walk on the Footpath and instead walk on the road. If it was so then all banks would stop investing millions of dollars in security systems and guards cause even today numerous banks with the best security systems and guards get robbed in spite of all the protection and precautions taken by them.

I am Honest but with My Soulmate and only those who are honest to me and to Those who truly love understand and respect me. (Being Honest to everyone is Dangerous Nowadays)

I Like to be Friends with only those who truly need me and have no one else.... For those who have plenty of Options and people around them - I am sure they will not need me, as they already have too many people to look after them, My presence or absence will not make a difference in their life.

I am just a normal guy who believes in "Live and let Live" and who believes in Protective Thinking for the People he loves and cares.

I dont believe in any form of lies in any kind of relationship (Love, Friendship etc.) as it gets no one anywhere and causes more pain and hate. "A relationship that starts with a lie dies because a lie"

So neither do I like Males telling stories just to get Women in bed neither do I like Females faking to get Men to do their work or to be around guys for their Sexual Needs, Money, Power, or Fame....

With respect to matters of my heart:
I don't mind women who have had a Physical Relationship in their past (Be it Sincere Love making with a Lover Or just plain lustful Sex with a man - but who was not a slut) and as long as the relationship were in was based on mutual respect for each other and as long as the memories of that past relationship/s or the person/people in that relationship do not interfere with the present and the future of my relationship with her.

I can even fall in love even with a Prostitute (who became one because of circumstances or a mistake and is willing from the core of her soul to correct it without having to think twice and without me having to tell her to do so) as long as she is a good Human deep inside and truly loves me.

My concept of love: I BELIEVE IN SOULMATE LOVE...